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Learning Local Etiquette and Customs: A Guide for International Students in Northern Ireland

Indian PG student Rushikesh provides an in-depth examination of key customs, language differences and local etiquette in Belfast and Northern Ireland.

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As an international student venturing into the vibrant and historically rich landscape of Northern Ireland, particularly Belfast, it's crucial to appreciate the depth of the local cultural and historical context. 

This blog aims to equip you with the knowledge necessary to navigate these complexities with respect and sensitivity, enhancing your overall experience in Northern Ireland.

A brief history of Belfast and Northern Ireland

Belfast, the capital city of Northern Ireland, is a city marked by its vibrant history and cultural complexities. Historically, Northern Ireland has been characterised by a unique blend of cultures, primarily due to its diverse population of Scottish, English, and Irish descent.

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Impact of History on Cultural Norms and Social Dynamics

The historical backdrop of Northern Ireland has deeply influenced its cultural expressions and social dynamics. Cultural manifestations such as murals, parades, and music often reflect the region's political narratives, serving as both forms of art and public statements of identity. Belfast, in particular, is known for its murals which depict the historical and political sentiments of its communities.

The legacy of "The Troubles" still influences the social fabric of Belfast. Many neighbourhoods, schools, and public spaces remain segregated along religious and political lines, fostering strong community identities.

However, efforts to bridge these divides have been ongoing and increasingly successful. Educational initiatives, community projects, and cultural events aim to foster a shared sense of identity that transcends historical enmities. These initiatives are crucial for international students to understand, as they highlight both the challenges and the progress in building a cohesive community.

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The question here is: Why do international students need to go over the surface history of Northern Ireland?

Because, as an international student in Belfast, understanding this complex history and its ongoing impact on cultural norms and social dynamics will be key to integrating successfully into the local community. It provides a context for the rich traditions and community life you will experience, enhancing both your educational and personal growth in this historically rich city.

Understanding Linguistic and Social Customs in Northern Ireland

As an international student in Northern Ireland, navigating the linguistic landscape and social customs can be both an exciting and challenging experience. 

Language Dynamics

While English is the predominant language in Northern Ireland, you will notice that Irish Language (also known as Irish Gaelic) also holds a place of cultural significance. It’s not uncommon to find Gaelic on signs, in public transport, and in the names of places. Although not everyone speaks Gaelic, its presence reflects the region's rich heritage. 

Understanding Accents and Local Slang

Northern Irish speech is known for its rich variety of accents and distinctive slang, which can vary significantly even over small distances. As an international student, you might find conversations initially hard to follow, especially in informal settings.

Familiarise yourself with NI slang

Practical Tips:

  • Listen to Local Media: Tune into local radio stations, or listen to podcasts from Northern Ireland. This exposure will help you acclimate to the accent and pick up on slang.
  • Postgraduates and undergraduates who want to get into honing their understanding of English and learn entrepreneurship side by side should listen to this Northern Irish Podcast - Young Entrepreneur: A Business Podcast From Young Enterprise Northern Ireland - A podcast that teaches young people the essentials of starting and running a successful business.

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What also worked for me is literally going to pubs every alternate evening, and attempting to start a conversation with locals. Not only was I able to pick up and understand their accent, I was also able to make new friends who actually were recommending good places to visit (Some pubs were suggested by my Professor).

After asking, debating with locals, we (including me) have come to conclusion that Maggie Mays serves the best Fish and Chips. End of Discussion.

  • Practice with Peers: Engage in conversation with local students at One Elmwood (Students' Union Centre). They usually appreciate the opportunity to explain local expressions and slang, and this can be a fun, informal way to learn.
  • Use Language Apps: Apps like Duolingo, which includes Irish Gaelic, or dedicated platforms for British English can help you understand colloquial terms and phrases commonly used in Northern Ireland.

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Learning Basic Gaelic Phrases

Irish Gaelic, while not predominantly spoken in day-to-day conversations in Northern Ireland, holds cultural and historical significance. Showing your willingness to learn and use some Gaelic can open doors to deeper cultural understanding and appreciation.

Practical Tips:

  • Start with Simple Greetings: Phrases like “Dia dhuit” (Hello) and “Slán” (Goodbye) are easy to learn and can be used in everyday interactions.
  • Attend Gaelic Language Classes: Queen’s does offer Irish language courses as part of their curriculum or as extracurricular activities. Participating in these classes can also help you meet other students interested in exploring the local culture.
  • Celebrate Gaelic Language Events: Participate in events like Seachtain na Gaeilge (Irish Language Week), where you can practice Gaelic in a supportive, educational environment.

What’s the craic?

When I travelled to Belfast last September, in Heathrow I met this wonderful old lady who was travelling to Belfast with me, she told me everything there is to know about Belfast and more which takes us to our next point.

"Craic" is an integral part of the culture, essentially referring to news, gossip, fun, entertainment, and enjoyable conversation. This concept isn't just about having fun; it's about the quality of experience and the lively atmosphere that can be found in social interactions or events. 

Sign saying craic it up

International Students, take note! There are different ways one must use this word.

Here’s a rundown of the six levels of craic, as a light-hearted way to measure the success and enjoyment of social occasions:

  1. Good craic - This is when you have a decent night out. It’s fun, enjoyable but nothing extraordinary.
  2. Mighty craic - A notch above good craic. This level suggests a more memorable and lively experience, possibly with some unexpected or particularly entertaining events.
  3. Savage craic - At this stage, the night is going exceptionally well. It's not just fun; it's great, with everyone in high spirits, good humour abounding, and the drinks flowing.
  4. Deadly craic - Better than savage, this level implies an even more thrilling and memorable night. It's almost at the pinnacle of enjoyment but not quite the peak.
  5. The craic was ninety - This is the ultimate level of craic, where everything goes perfectly. The term "ninety" here indicates an extremely high level, likely derived from the Christy Moore song "The Craic Was Ninety in the Isle of Man", suggesting a peak experience filled with joy, laughter, and great company.
  6. Minus craic - This is the opposite of all the above. A night that is so lacking in fun or enjoyment, it might have been better spent at home or somewhere decidedly less lively, like a mausoleum.

Social Etiquette and Customs

Here are some tips and insights for international students heading to study in Queen's, focusing on social etiquette and customs that can help you integrate more smoothly into the local and business culture.

Greeting Norms

  • Initial Introductions: In Belfast, as in many parts of Ireland, a firm handshake accompanied by direct eye contact is the standard greeting. It signifies trust and respect. When meeting someone for the first time, use formal titles until invited to use first names.
  • Casual Interactions: Among peers, such as fellow students, greetings can be more relaxed. A simple "Hello" or "Hi" suffices, and in informal settings, you might even get a "How's it going?".
  • Frequency of Interaction: Don't be surprised if initial greetings quickly turn into longer conversations. People in Belfast are known for their friendliness and love of chat.

Belfast City Hall

Belfast is known for its warm welcome and friendly faces

Social Gatherings

  • Pub Culture: Pubs are central to social life in Belfast. Understanding the round system when drinking in groups is important; each person takes a turn buying a round of drinks for the group. It’s considered rude to skip your turn.
  • Conversational Topics: Neutral topics include discussions about studies, the weather and sports. Be mindful of contentious topics like politics, particularly Northern Ireland's historical conflict, unless brought up by someone local who you know well.
  • House Parties: If invited to someone's home, punctuality is appreciated. Bringing a small gift like a bottle of wine or a box of chocolates for the host is a common courtesy.

Dining Etiquette

  • Eating Out: When dining in restaurants, remember that waitstaff do not rely heavily on tips, but a 10-15 per cent tip for exceptional service is appreciated. In pubs, tipping the bar staff is not a common practice.
  • Mealtime Behaviour: Table manners are informal yet respectful. The Continental style of using utensils is common (fork in the left hand, knife in the right). 
  • Quiet Dining: If you prefer a quieter dining experience, choosing a corner table might imply a desire for privacy, and people are likely to respect that choice and leave you undisturbed.

Additional Tips

  • Attire: For university and most social settings, casual or smart-casual attire is typically acceptable. For special occasions or formal gatherings, you might need to dress more formally.
  • Language: While English is the predominant language, you might hear local dialects and slang.  Don’t hesitate to ask for clarification if you don’t understand local expressions.
  • Respect and Sensitivity: Always show respect for local customs and sensitivities. The history of Northern Ireland is complex, and showing awareness and respect for this can help you avoid misunderstandings.

Two people drinking cocktails

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Public Holidays and Festivals

  • Patrick's Day (March 17th): Celebrated across the island, St. Patrick's Day is a vibrant public holiday honouring Ireland’s patron saint. In Belfast, the city comes alive with parades, green-dyed fountains, and street parties. Students can join in the festivities by wearing green, participating in parades, or visiting St. Patrick's grave in nearby Downpatrick.
  • Orangefest (July 12th): Known as 'The Twelfth,' this holiday marks the victory of William of Orange in 1690. It features parades of the Orange Order, a Protestant fraternal organisation. These parades are significant in Belfast, showcasing marching bands and cultural symbols. 
  • Belfast Marathon (End of May): A major sporting event that invites international participation, the Belfast Marathon traverses the city with a 26-mile race and a shorter fun run. Students can either participate as runners or join the local community in cheering the participants. It concludes with a grand celebration at City Hall.
  • Belfast Pride (Date varies, typically end of July or early August): One of the biggest LGBTQ+ festivals in Ireland, Belfast Pride celebrates diversity with a colourful parade, music, dance, and various community events. It’s an excellent opportunity for students to support and engage with the local LGBTQ+ community. For students belonging to LGBTQ+ communities, I can’t stress this enough but you guys need to check this out. It’s a whole new community where you feel like part of huge family.

How Students Can Participate

Participating in Public Celebrations: Most festivals in Belfast offer volunteer opportunities or the chance to participate in parades and public performances. This is a great way for students to experience local culture and meet new people.

Attending Events and Shows: From the Cathedral Quarter Arts Festival to the Belfast International Arts Festival, there are numerous events showcasing everything from music and theatre to food and crafts. Students should take advantage of these opportunities to experience the local arts scene and learn more about Northern Irish culture.

Parade dancer at St Patrick's Day parade in Belfast

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Joining University-Organised Events: Queen's often organises events around public holidays and festivals, providing a safe and inclusive environment for international students to celebrate and learn about local traditions.

Exploring Food and Craft Markets: Events like the Twilight Market are perfect for students to taste local flavours and purchase local crafts. These markets often feature live music and are a fun, casual way to enjoy the festive atmosphere.

Community Engagement: Festivals like Féile an Phobail and the Belfast Mela are deeply rooted in community participation. Students can also engage by attending parades, workshops, discussions, and community arts projects, fostering a deeper understanding and connection with different cultural groups within Belfast.

Cultural Sensitivities for International Students in Northern Ireland

Topics to Avoid in Conversation

  1. Politics and Religion:
    • The "Troubles": This period of conflict, while historically significant, remains a sensitive topic. It's best to avoid discussing any aspect of the Troubles unless it is brought up by a local who is comfortable talking about it.
    • Political Allegiances: Be mindful of expressing opinions on issues like Irish reunification or British unionism.
    • Marching Season: While this is a notable part of local culture, it's best to avoid discussing your thoughts on the parades unless you are very well-informed and understand the local perspectives.
  2. National Identity:
    • Calling Yourself Irish: Be cautious when discussing identities, especially claiming Irish heritage. It's respectful to acknowledge the complex identities that exist in Northern Ireland without assuming them for yourself.
    • Use of Names: Be mindful of terms like "Derry" versus "Londonderry" or "Northern Ireland" versus "the North of Ireland." 
  3. Cultural Symbols and Flags:
    • Displaying Flags: Be mindful of wearing clothing or accessories that prominently feature either the Union Jack or the Irish Tricolour, as these can sometimes be seen as political statements.
    • Respecting Symbols: Show respect for all cultural symbols and murals you encounter, recognising that they hold deep meaning and history for the local communities.

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Understanding the Political Landscape Without Offending Differing Perspectives

  • Educate Yourself: Before arriving, take the time to read about Northern Ireland's history, focusing on understanding the major events like the Good Friday Agreement and the historical context that shapes current attitudes. Learn about both the unionist and nationalist perspectives to appreciate the diversity of thought within the community.
  • Listen More Than You Speak: When topics related to politics or history arise in conversation, prioritise listening over contributing. This approach allows you to gain insights from personal stories and perspectives that are informed by lived experiences. Asking open-ended questions respectfully can help deepen your understanding without forcing your views on others.
  • Neutral Discussion Topics: If you find yourself in a conversation about sensitive subjects, steer the discussion towards more neutral topics such as food, music, sports (excluding politically charged teams or matches), and local festivities that celebrate the rich cultural heritage of Northern Ireland.
  • Cultural Engagement: Participate in local cultural and community events where you can observe and learn about the traditions and customs first-hand. This direct engagement is an excellent way to show respect and build genuine connections with the community.
  • Seek Diverse Perspectives: Try to interact with a wide range of people from different backgrounds. Universities often provide forums, talks, and seminars about local culture and history which can be great opportunities to hear different viewpoints in a structured and respectful setting.

By adhering to these guidelines, international students can navigate the complex cultural and political landscape of Northern Ireland with sensitivity and respect, ensuring a positive experience while studying in this unique region.

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Rushikesh Mahajan

LLM Law and Technology | Postgraduate Student | India

I am a Postgraduate student specialising in LLM Law and Technology at Queen’s University Belfast. I have a strong interest in digital services and technology. I come from a legal background where majority of emphasis was given on reading. I like to cook, play video games and talk to people. As a solicitor I like to learn about people and provide them solution.

 Rushikesh Mahajan
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